Did you know: “More than 46 million Americans are living with a mental illness?” That’s nearly one in five U.S. adults (19% of the population). [1]
So, what is mental illness?
“Mental Illnesses are brain-based conditions that affect thinking, emotions, and behaviors. Since we all have brains – having some kind of mental health problem during your life is really common.” [2]
How many are there? About 200 classified forms of mental illness (and counting) exist. Some of the most common are: depression, bipolar disorder, dementia, schizophrenia and anxiety disorders.
“As with conditions like cancer, diabetes and heart disease, mental illnesses are often physical as well as emotional and psychological. Mental illnesses may be caused by a reaction to environmental stresses, genetic factors, biochemical imbalances, or a combination of these.” [2]
With proper care, individuals can recover and live vibrant, healthy, and meaningful lives (case in point, my mental health journey with anxiety).
Through this article, I will explain how to successfully live and thrive with a mental illness, through a combination of different strategies.
Understanding the Healthcare System
In order to receive affordable health care for things like doctors visits, emergency room visits and medications, you’re going to need insurance. The level of access and cost will vary depending on the plan you choose. [3]
The main insurance options in the United States are:
- Private Health Insurance
- Medicaid
- Medicare
- CHIP (Children's Health Insurance Program)
- TRICARE and VA Health Care
For more in-depth details about each healthcare option, check out the following NAMI resource: Types Of Health Insurance. It is a treasure trove of knowledge.
When choosing a plan, keep these points in mind:
Affordability: Be mindful of: premiums (monthly payments), deductibles (amount you must pay before insurance kicks in), and copays (fixed fees for each service rendered). They will vary substantially depending on your plan. Compare options to get the most value for your dollar.
Availability of mental health professionals: Make sure there are lots of mental health professionals to choose from such as psychologists and psychiatrists.
HMO Vs. PPO: Make sure to understand the difference between HMO vs PPO. HMO is a Health Maintenance Organization like Kaiser Permanente that has a network of providers to choose from. PPO stands for Preferred Provider Organization and lets you choose from a network of providers and pay extra to access out of network providers.
Prescription Coverage: If you decide you need medication, check to see how much each plan will cover. Also, be sure to check out NAMI’s Guide Help Paying For Medication for resources like discounts, coupons and non-profit assistance.
Navigating Romantic Relationships
Many people living with mental illness have questions about love and romance.
Mentally ill people wonder, can they have a relationship? Yes! The good news is that hundreds of millions of mentally ill people around the world are participating in healthy, successful relationships right now and billions that came before us did so too.
Another question is how do I reveal my illness? Try the sandwiching method, where you reveal several pieces of “good news” alongside the “bad news” This technique can assuage people’s fears. For example, as a precursor to revealing you have bipolar, you can discuss all the good things about your relationship and what you like about this person.
Also, consider sharing books and literature on your specific mental illness to arm your partner with knowledge. [3]
Pick a time when you’re calm/relaxed and not overtly symptomatic ie. depressed or manic. “You may want to start with “process talk” to introduce the fact that you want to share something difficult. (For example, “I want to tell you something important that I’ve been worrying about. This is difficult for me to say, though. I hope you can listen and understand.”)
Be prepared for three possible outcomes of the conversation: understanding and support, an end to the relationship, and curiosity/uncertainty. No matter what happens, trust you made the right move.
Given what might happen, many people wonder should I reveal my illness at all? Yes! Healthy relationships are built on openness and trust. If they really love you, they will have your back through good times and bad. Plus, support from your partner is highly valuable and will help you navigate any turbulent mental health waters. Not to mention, many times your partner will find out sooner or later. It’s better to get things sorted out when the seas are calm.
Finding A Mental Health Provider(s)
Here’s your chance to find allies to support you. The main players and what they can do are as follows: [6]
Psychiatrists: Trained in diagnosing mental health conditions and prescribing medication. There are MD’s (medical doctors) and OD’s (osteopathic doctors which treat the body as a whole). Often they specialize in a certain area like addiction medicine or adolescent care. Can provide a degree of counseling depending on their background.
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioners: If training permits, can prescribe medication. Can also diagnose and treat mental illnesses depending on their background. Requires Master of Science or Doctorate in Nursing.
Psychiatric Pharmacists: Specialize in mental health, are experts on psychiatric medication, and can write prescriptions. Also, fluent in drug interactions. Many have completed additional training in areas such as: child/adolescent psychiatry, substance abuse disorders or geriatric psychiatry. Requires Doctorate of Pharmacy.
Psychologists: Typically hold a doctorate degree. There to provide counseling. “Some may have training in specific forms of therapy like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and other behavioral therapy interventions.” Can diagnose and treat a variety of mental health disorders. Typically can't prescribe medication.
Five Factors To Consider When Seeking Treatment:
- Do you need counseling, medication, or both? Some mental health providers can do both, but many can’t though. So, if you’re like many people (including me) you’ll likely need a therapist and a psychiatrist who can ideally communicate and share notes. Your condition will help you decide who you need on your treatment team. For example, if you have schizophrenia, you’re likely going to need medication and a specialist like a psychiatrist to prescribe medications. Whereas, if you have trouble with social anxiety, you’ll likely need the help of a therapist trained in CBT and other treatment modalities.
- Coverage: your insurance will determine who you can and cannot see. Check with them throughout the process.
- Questions: You’ll want to ask plenty of questions. Helpful ones include: regardless of their prestige/training,etc, do I feel comfortable with this person? Also, what is their background and how much training do they have? Further, has this person treated people with my condition before? If so, how many? What to expect from sessions? Can I email or call this person? Can we meet over Zoom? How hard is it to get appointments? What benefits can I expect to see? Can I see you on short notice? What is their treatment approach and philosophy? What area, if any, did they specialize in?
- You're building a relationship: don’t be afraid to pass on a mental health professional. It’s all about you and your needs. Afterall, you’re looking for someone to treat you for the long haul. Trust is paramount!
- Ask for referrals from their office from other patients.
Where To Look For Mental Health Professionals:
- Checkout NAMI (National Alliance On Mental Illness).
- Ask your insurance company for a list of covered providers.
- Ask your primary care doctor for recommendations.
- If possible, check out resources like healthgrades.com and YELP for reviews.
- Ask for the help of friends and family.
- Check out professional societies for a list of providers such as: the American Psychological Society (APA), the American Medical Association, and the American Psychiatric Association.
Forming A Support Network
Feeling alone? Try building a support network. Start by enlisting the support of your friends and family. [5]
And then when you’re ready, reach out to local support groups, where you can find people who understand what you’re going through because they’ve been through it too. People in these groups often have specific, comprehensive, and actionable advice like what to do in a crisis, navigating insurance, and gaining SSDI and SSI government assistance.
I have personal experience with various anxiety groups around the SF Bay Area, which have been invaluable resources. Through them, I received support, made friends, and learned tips and tricks for managing my anxiety.
Taking Care Of Your Body
There’s a saying: take care of the body and the body will take care of you.
First and foremost, this means managing stress, which exacerbates virtually all mental illnesses and in some cases can trigger full blown episodes for people with mood or psychosis based disorders. [3]
Ways to reduce stress include: meditation, progressive muscle relaxation, getting good sleep, daily social interaction, setting time aside for yourself to indulge and have fun, and all forms of exercise such as: running, soccer, yoga, and tai chi.
Part of taking care of your body means also eating a healthy diet which stabilizes mental health. Make sure to avoid the following all or most of the time: added sugars, processed (junk) foods like fried chicken and pizza, unhealthy oils (sunflower, canola), and meat with antibiotics and growth hormones.
Endeavor to “eat the rainbow,” which means getting plenty of fruits and vegetables of different colors. Also, incorporate plenty of seeds, nuts, and grass fed meat in your diet. For best results, pick a diet/way of eating and stick to it. I have celiac disease so the Paleo diet works well for me. The Mediterranean diet is another super popular route.
Also, in my experience supplements can help with optimal functioning. I regularly take the following: fish oil, magnesium glycinate, Ashwagandha, chamomile, CBD, and lemon balm.
Journaling For Mental Health
Looking for a strategy that packs a punch? Try journaling. I have a special journal dedicated to my mental health journey, which serves many functions including: [4]
- Documents past experiences.
- Lists medications I've been on + the effects (good and bad).
- Provides a list of mental health professionals I’ve seen + their recommendations.
- Contains mental health goals and a short/long term plan of action.
- Outlines my insurance plan and any questions I have.
- Elucidates where improvement is needed.
- Helps identify triggers that make my condition worse.
- Lists what I’m grateful for.
- Tracks mental health patterns.
Wrapping It All Up
Mental health is a journey to wellness. It takes time to learn how to thrive. But, with patience and some simple strategies to help move forward, progress and success will happen. I am living proof.
Strategies I mentioned in this article include: understanding the healthcare system, navigating romantic relationships, how to find a mental health professional, forming a support network, taking care of your body, and journaling.
My question for you: what strategies help you live and thrive with mental illness?
Over and Out,
Timothy
Timothy Salisbury is a freelance writer. In his spare time, he enjoys blogging and making electronic and hip hop music. He has personal experience with anxiety and brings his exuberance for mental health to the Breaking Taboo team.
Resources
https://www.drugwatch.com/health/mental-health/mental-illness/ [1]
https://www.mhanational.org/recognizing-warning-signs [2]
https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Individuals-with-Mental-Illness [3]
https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/what-is-mental-illness [4]
https://www.mentalhealth.gov/talk/people-mental-health-problems [5]
https://www.nami.org/About-Mental-Illness/Treatments/Types-of-Mental-Health-Professionals [7]
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